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Put your toys away

Leave a space better than you found it — starting with your own.

What to learn

Return toys and belongings to their place after using them, without being told each time.

The problem it solves

Everything gets left where it drops, so the space — and the next person — carries the cost.

How to teach it

Teach a child

Make “away” part of the activity, not a separate battle: nothing new starts until the last thing is put back. Do it with them at first, then less, and name it — “we leave it ready for next time.” Keep it routine, not a punishment.

Teach yourself

Reset a space when you’re done with it — the small tax of putting things back is what keeps a shared home livable. Whoever comes next inherits the state you leave.

Done when

Puts belongings back after using them, most of the time, without a reminder.

In the framework

Care shows up in small maintenance: you leave shared space ready for the next person. Putting toys away is the toddler-sized version of “respect what’s shared; leave it better.”

This lesson lives in Care — one of the four circles of Agency, the engine of everything you do. Read The People Close →

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